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Dikkatle ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131yla takip ettim. D\u00fcnya Emek\u00e7i Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019ne ait \u00e7i\u00e7ekli, b\u00f6cekli, kurdelal\u0131 s\u00fcsl\u00fc p\u00fcsl\u00fc mesajlar \u00e7ok g\u00fczeldi; all\u0131, morlu kad\u0131n fig\u00fcrleriyle dolu mesajlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi\u00e7birinde, “Ben anam\u0131, bac\u0131m\u0131, kar\u0131m\u0131, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 d\u00f6vece\u011fim; bakars\u0131n\u0131z kesip \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fcm. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131na, k\u0131z\u0131na taciz edece\u011fim; duruma g\u00f6re belki tecav\u00fcz ederim” <\/strong>diye bir \u015fey yazm\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adeta sevgi p\u0131t\u0131rc\u0131\u011f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc herkes 8 Mart\u2019ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevindim; e\u011fer herkes b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsa, biz kad\u0131na \u015fiddet ve tecav\u00fcz olay\u0131n\u0131 toplumsal ahlak ve merhametimizle \u00e7\u00f6zm\u00fc\u015f say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Peki, ger\u00e7ekten romantik ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli sevgi p\u0131t\u0131rc\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck hepimiz yoksa\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte i\u015fin bir de “yoksa”<\/strong>s\u0131 var. O p\u0131t\u0131rc\u0131k hallerimiz, ele g\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 bir maske ya da sadece g\u00f6steri\u015f i\u00e7in mi yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn bu ilahi komedyalar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Verilere g\u00f6re, 2013-2023 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda 4.197 kad\u0131n cinayeti ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2024 y\u0131l\u0131nda 280 kad\u0131n, evli olduklar\u0131 erkek, baba, o\u011ful veya bir akraba taraf\u0131ndan; 19 k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu ise babalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f. Bunlardan 9’u ise anneleriyle birlikte katledilmi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8 Mart 1857 tarihinde New York’ta 40.000 dokuma i\u015f\u00e7isi kad\u0131n, daha iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ko\u015fullar\u0131 istemiyle bir greve ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f; ancak polisin i\u015f\u00e7ilere sald\u0131rmas\u0131, i\u015f\u00e7ilerin fabrikaya kilitlenmesi ve ard\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan yang\u0131n sebebiyle 129 kad\u0131n i\u015f\u00e7i yanarak can vermi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O kad\u0131nlar\u0131n m\u00fccadelelerini, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ektiklerini veya canlar\u0131n\u0131 verdikleri o olaylarla onlardan sonraki nesillere kazand\u0131rd\u0131klar\u0131 haklar\u0131 bilerek, \u0130bret alarak, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nas\u0131l koruyaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 konu\u015farak anmal\u0131yd\u0131k 8 Mart\u2019\u0131; yapmad\u0131k tabii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc duyarl\u0131 olmak ve bilgi zor i\u015ftir, cehalet ise \u00e7ok kolay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anlamak zor, anlatmak daha zor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bizi do\u011furan analar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 do\u011furan kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve gelecek nesillerin annelerine yap\u0131lan zulm\u00fc g\u00f6rmezden gelmek, katledilmelerine sessiz kalmak; onlar\u0131 bu \u00e7a\u011fda bile koruyam\u0131yor olmak, senede sadece bir g\u00fcn \u00e7i\u00e7eklerle, b\u00f6ceklerle s\u00fcsl\u00fc mesajlarla oyalamak bir ak\u0131l tutulmas\u0131 ya da katillere, zalimlere su\u00e7 ortakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapmaktan ba\u015fka ne olabilir ki?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sonraki y\u0131llarda, o \u00e7i\u00e7ekli b\u00f6cekli mesajlar\u0131 g\u00f6nderen ka\u00e7 sevgi p\u0131t\u0131rc\u0131\u011f\u0131 katil veya tecav\u00fczc\u00fc olacak insan k\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki yarat\u0131klar var aram\u0131zda sizce\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yok diyebilen kimse var m\u0131? Bence yok; sizce de olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir \u00f6nemli konu da, onlar\u0131n b\u00f6yle sa\u00e7ma sapan kutlamalara ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 olmayacak kadar ak\u0131ll\u0131, duygusal, \u00fcretken, kutsal ve cefakar olmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne demi\u015fti Ne\u015fet Erta\u015f: “Kad\u0131nlar insand\u0131r, biz insano\u011flu.”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke\u015fke hepimiz onlar kadar olamasak da, biraz insan olabilseydik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vesselam.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dikkatle ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131yla takip ettim. 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