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Bir sabah, aynaya bakarken g\u00f6zlerimin alt\u0131ndaki \u00e7izgilere tak\u0131ld\u0131m. Zamanla aram\u0131zda k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar olu\u015fmu\u015f gibi\u2026 Ayn\u0131 \u00e7izgiler y\u0131llard\u0131r bana sabr\u0131, m\u00fccadeleyi, kay\u0131plar\u0131 ve yeniden aya\u011fa kalkmay\u0131 anlat\u0131yor ama ben ne yap\u0131yorum? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc buru\u015fturup, \u201cEskimi\u015fim,\u201d diyorum. Oysa o \u00e7izgiler benim hik\u00e2yem. Kendime haks\u0131zl\u0131k etti\u011fimin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir kan\u0131t\u0131 sadece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn m\u00fc? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131, yorgunlu\u011funu, durgunlu\u011funu ne kolay affediyoruz. Ama s\u0131ra kendimize geldi\u011finde bir mahkeme kuruyoruz i\u00e7imizde. San\u0131k da biziz, h\u00e2kim de. \u201cNeden daha fazla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131n, neden daha \u00e7ok \u00e7abalamad\u0131n, neden mutlu olamad\u0131n?\u201d diye sorup duruyoruz. Sanki her \u015feyin sorumlusu sadece bizmi\u015fiz gibi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa bazen yorulmak, bazen pes etmek, bazen sadece nefes almak istemek\u2026 Hepsi insan olman\u0131n do\u011fal halleri. Ama biz, \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u201d y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc omzumuza \u00f6yle bir y\u00fcklemi\u015fiz ki, d\u00fc\u015fmeyi bile zay\u0131fl\u0131k say\u0131yoruz. H\u00e2lbuki bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fc\u00e7, kendine \u015fefkat g\u00f6sterebilmekte sakl\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendimize haks\u0131zl\u0131k ediyoruz\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendimizi s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslayarak,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendi ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hislerimizi bast\u0131rarak,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130yile\u015fmek yerine susmay\u0131 se\u00e7erek\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn; bir arkada\u015f\u0131n sana gelip \u201cBug\u00fcn hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapamad\u0131m, kendimi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissediyorum\u201d dese, sar\u0131l\u0131p \u201cHer g\u00fcn ayn\u0131 olmak zorunda de\u011filsin, bu da ge\u00e7er\u201d demez misin? Peki, ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleyi kendin i\u00e7in neden kuram\u0131yorsun?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn kendine bir iyilik yap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kendine k\u0131zmak yerine, anla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eksik bulmak yerine, takdir et.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yorulduysan, dur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Durduysan, su\u00e7lama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir kahve al, aynaya g\u00fcl\u00fcmse ve de ki: \u201cBug\u00fcn biraz ge\u00e7 kald\u0131m belki ama yine de geldim. Kendimden \u00f6z\u00fcr diliyorum.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc en \u00e7ok senin aff\u0131na ihtiyac\u0131n var.Ve bazen en \u00e7ok kendine iyi davranmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmen gerek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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