{"id":2823,"date":"2026-01-10T01:03:42","date_gmt":"2026-01-09T22:03:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/?post_type=columist&#038;p=2823"},"modified":"2026-01-10T01:03:43","modified_gmt":"2026-01-09T22:03:43","slug":"yazar-dedigin-cirkin-olur","status":"publish","type":"columist","link":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/yazarlar\/arzu-samat\/konu\/yazar-dedigin-cirkin-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"yazar dedi\u011fin \u00e7irkin olur"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u0130nsan olman\u0131n bile zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7a\u011fda, kad\u0131n olarak sistemin i\u00e7inde var kalma m\u00fccadelesinin ne denli yorucu oldu\u011funu bir Allah bir de biz kad\u0131nlar biliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feministli\u011fi bir ideoloji olarak oldum olas\u0131 savunmad\u0131m; sevmedim, yan\u0131nda da durmad\u0131m. Zira her ideolojinin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131s\u0131 insana zarar verir.\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne var ki \u015funu da a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6ylemek zorunday\u0131m: Toplumumuzda kad\u0131n ma\u011fduriyeti art\u0131k soyut bir kavram de\u011fildir. Ete kemi\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn i\u00e7ine baka baka kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda durmaktad\u0131r.Hi\u00e7e say\u0131lmak\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130steklerinin g\u00f6rmezden gelinmesi\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eahsiyetinin korunmamas\u0131, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yok say\u0131lmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ufac\u0131k bir hatanda bel alt\u0131ndan vurulman\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmesi, hor g\u00f6r\u00fclmesi\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funda parmakla g\u00f6sterilip alay edilmen\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n her zaferin ard\u0131nda mutlaka bir \u201ceril g\u00fc\u00e7\u201d aranmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve kay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131n, u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n haks\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n sebebinin d\u00f6n\u00fcp dola\u015f\u0131p \u201citaatsizli\u011fine\u201d ba\u011flanmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Annem hep derdi ki:\u2028\u201cAllah \u00e7irkin \u015fans\u0131 versin.\u201dO zamanlar bu s\u00f6z\u00fc pek anlayamazd\u0131m. Bug\u00fcn ise benim i\u00e7in derin ve ac\u0131 bir hakikati ifade ediyor.\u2028\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fczel, \u00fcst\u00fcne ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve \u00fcstelik s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 olan bir kad\u0131nsan\u0131z\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vay h\u00e2linize.Ho\u015f geldiniz kurtlar sofras\u0131na.\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir masaya yat\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z; \u00f6nce bedeniniz didiklenir, ard\u0131ndan ruhunuz par\u00e7a par\u00e7a edilir. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve herkes kendi pay\u0131na d\u00fc\u015feni afiyetle yer. Kendi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir olay\u0131 payla\u015fmak isterim.\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bundan iki y\u0131l \u00f6nce, \u201centelekt\u00fcel\u201d olarak an\u0131lan \u015fair ve yazarlar\u0131n bir araya geldi\u011fi bir toplant\u0131ya kat\u0131ld\u0131m. \u0130stanbul trafi\u011fi malum, biraz gecikmi\u015ftim. \u0130\u00e7eri girdi\u011fimde selamla\u015fmalar ve tan\u0131\u015fma fasl\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beni davet eden arkada\u015f\u0131m, yazar oldu\u011fumu; edebiyat ve felsefeyle yak\u0131ndan ilgilendi\u011fimi anlatt\u0131.Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m tepki \u015fuydu:\u2028\u201cNe? Yazar m\u0131? Yazar dedi\u011fin \u00e7irkin olur!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dBunu kendilerince esprili bir dille s\u00f6ylediler. Zihinlerindeki kal\u0131ba g\u00f6re yazar dedi\u011fin bak\u0131ms\u0131z, silik ve \u00e7irkin olmal\u0131yd\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>G\u00fczel bir kad\u0131n\u0131n iyi bir yazar olabilece\u011fi ihtimali, ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7miyordu.Ben de \u015fu cevab\u0131 verdim:\u2028\u201cEntelekt\u00fcel diye adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kesimin yorumu buysa, toplumdan ne bekleyebiliriz? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201dBu yaz\u0131y\u0131 kaleme almama sebep olan as\u0131l meseleye gelirsek\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Son iki haftad\u0131r, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin sevdi\u011fi bir kad\u0131n sanat\u00e7\u0131 ile bir siyaset\u00e7i aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan s\u00f6zl\u00fc \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma.Sanat\u00e7\u0131 han\u0131mefendi; \u015fark\u0131lar yapm\u0131\u015f, filmlerde oynam\u0131\u015f, zor da olsa bu toplumun g\u00f6nl\u00fcnde yer edinmi\u015f biri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Siyaset\u00e7i hakk\u0131nda ise \u00e7ok bilgim yok. Bildi\u011fim tek \u015fey, bu kad\u0131na y\u00f6neltti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck seviyeli ifadeler.Son a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131nda, s\u00f6z konusu sanat\u00e7\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi kurdu:\u2028\u201cO sanat\u00e7\u0131 sanat\u00e7\u0131 de\u011fildir, onun ne oldu\u011fu bellidir. \u201dBak\u0131n\u0131z, yine ayn\u0131 tablo\u2026\u2028Kad\u0131n; sanat\u00e7\u0131 olur, avukat olur, ev kad\u0131n\u0131 olur, hangi stat\u00fcde olursa olsun\u2026\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015flerine gelmeyen bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6yledi\u011finde ya da bir duru\u015f sergiledi\u011finde, an\u0131nda bel alt\u0131ndan vurulur.Siyaset\u00e7isi b\u00f6yleyse, bu toplumda kad\u0131n ne yaps\u0131n diye sormadan edemiyorum.\u2028<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir kez daha, yeniden ve y\u00fcksek sesle\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bahsi ge\u00e7en han\u0131mefendi sanat\u00e7\u0131 G\u00fclben Ergen\u2019dir.\u2028Siyaset\u00e7i beyi ise ger\u00e7ekten tan\u0131m\u0131yorum.\u2028Bu c\u00fcmlesinden sonra tan\u0131mak da istemiyorum do\u011frusu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsan olman\u0131n bile zorla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7a\u011fda, kad\u0131n olarak sistemin i\u00e7inde var kalma m\u00fccadelesinin ne denli yorucu&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":2825,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","categories":[60,38],"tags":[],"manset":[],"class_list":["post-2823","columist","type-columist","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kirmizi-bulten-avrupa","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/columist\/2823","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/columist"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/columist"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2823"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2825"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2823"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2823"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2823"},{"taxonomy":"manset","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kirmizibulten.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/manset?post=2823"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}