~ Me\u015frebimiz Duad\u0131r ~
Duay\u0131 Kendimizden \u00c7\u0131kar\u0131p \u0130nsana Ta\u015f\u0131yabilmek
Dua \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendimiz i\u00e7in etti\u011fimiz bir dilek olarak alg\u0131lan\u0131r. Oysa biz, tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015famayan; farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerin, fikirlerin, inan\u00e7lar\u0131n ve duygular\u0131n i\u00e7 i\u00e7e ge\u00e7ti\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e2lemin i\u00e7indeyiz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Birebir temas etmesek bile i\u015fte, toplu ta\u015f\u0131mada, ortak alanlarda, kap\u0131 kom\u015fumuzla ya da aile i\u00e7inde bu ge\u00e7i\u015f h\u00e2lleri hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Kabul etsek de etmesek de bu, bizim sahici ger\u00e7e\u011fimizdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu \u00e7e\u015fitlilik kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ya\u015fanan kutupla\u015fma ise bana g\u00f6re insan\u0131n kendine yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ama s\u0131k\u00e7a ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu bir ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f yoludur. Ad\u0131n\u0131 koyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z A ya da B planlar\u0131\u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oysa iyi niyeti koruyabildi\u011fimizde, onu kaybetmedi\u011fimizde, duay\u0131 da genelle\u015ftirmeyi \u00f6\u011freniriz. Hep kendimiz i\u00e7in, hep \u201cbana\u201d demekten vazge\u00e7meyi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de bug\u00fcn ba\u015flamak gerekir.. Ayn\u0131 yere, en iyi niyetlerle ruhlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 u\u00e7urmay\u0131 denemek gerekir. Bunun i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten m\u00fcsait bir zaman se\u00e7mek; kendimize, i\u00e7imize d\u00f6nmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n g\u00f6n\u00fcl hanesi, d\u00fcnyadan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e2lemdir. Bu, bir zamanlar kilitleyip anahtar\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fimiz bir kap\u0131dan s\u00f6z etmek de\u011fildir. En derin, en i\u00e7ten niyetlerle, anahtara bile gerek duymadan a\u00e7\u0131labilen kap\u0131lardan bahsediyorum..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsana bu keramet verilmi\u015ftir.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dua yoluyla, hu\u015f\u00fb i\u00e7inde i\u00e7 \u00e2lemimizin s\u0131rl\u0131 kilitlerini a\u00e7mak san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar zor de\u011fildir.. Yeter ki \u015fahsi dileklerle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclmeyelim, niyetlerimizi daraltmayal\u0131m.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir alan a\u00e7\u0131p g\u00f6n\u00fclden bir \u201ces\u201d verelim ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Sadece ellerimizi a\u00e7mak yetmez; a\u015fk\u0131n samimiyetiyle ruhumuzu a\u00e7mak gerekir..
\u201cO\u201d ki vermek \u015fan\u0131ndan olan c\u00f6mertli\u011fin sahibidir..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2028\u201cO\u201d, kendisine a\u00e7\u0131lan\u0131 geri \u00e7evirir mi hi\u00e7? \u2028Ar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcndeki ruhlar\u0131m\u0131zla naz makam\u0131nda dururken, ilahi a\u015fk\u0131n huzurunda bize baldan tatl\u0131 bir ikram sunulmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u0131 san\u0131yoruz?
Diyelim ki ellerimiz koz gibi kurumu\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2028Diyelim ki g\u00f6zlerimiz ya\u015fl\u0131, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerimiz buruk\u2026 \u2028Peki ya niyetlerimiz? Onlar da m\u0131 yas tutuyor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O kadar kolay de\u011fil. Biz a\u015fkla, niyazla var oluruz..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do\u011fu\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 basit s\u00f6zlerden ibaret mi sand\u0131k? Atalar\u0131m\u0131zdan kalma ananeleri nas\u0131l unuttuk? \u00c7ocukken ko\u015ftuk, ko\u015fturulduk; d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fck; kalkt\u0131k, kald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131k. Uyuduk, uyand\u0131k, uyand\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131k biz..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir durmak gerek. \u2028Bir kalmak.. Bir s\u00f6yle\u015fmek\u2026
Kendin hakk\u0131nda bu kadar erken karar verme. \u0130sti\u015fare s\u00fcnnettir; hele bir fikirle\u015felim..
Destur almadan kaderinden, nereye b\u00f6yle?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fcne\u015fhan Fatma G\u00f6k<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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